October 18, 2017
It is a new day! I know it has been a while since I last posted a blog - lots has been happening in my life, and sometimes you just have to simplify to stay mentally and physically healthy. I know many of you understand what I mean, or will learn about this in your future . . . just remember - it is okay to make changes when you feel like it is necessary.
One of the big things happening recently- I moved from Oahu, HI to Spokane, WA at the end of August. My oldest son, daughter in law and grandsons were moving for new teaching jobs at one of the colleges there, and since I want to be around my family - I moved too. It has been a hugh committment of time, planning, money, and decisions as to what I would ship and what I would sell/give away.
There are decisions to make whenever you move - whether it is in the same town, state, or across the ocean. You begin to understand what is really necessary, what you can replace when you get to your new address, and what you can live without. Over the last five years I have moved from CA to HI, two different places in HI, and now to WA. Before that I lived in the same house for 18 years!
Needless to say, I can understand how you feel lost at times, and have to be open to new friendships, making new traditions and trying new adventures. It definitely is easier to stay in touch with family and friends through technology (Facetime, Facebook, text, email, etc). I have learned how it feels to leave or give up the things that are a part of what makes you who you are now, and can emphasize with others who have left their homes, families, city, state or country to begin a new life in a different place.
If you are thinking about making a move, give yourself time to make these adjustments. I have heard others say it takes at least a year, and I can agree with that now. Make lists, set short and long term goals, and don’t feel like you have to do it all in one day. For me, daily reading of Bible verses about changes, or listening to Joyce Meyers has helped to give me the peace and strength I needed to cope with all the changes.
Be sure to give yourself something that helps you feel “normal”. A familiar routine, even if its in a new place, can help you cope. Go get that coffee, explore and begin to find where you like to get your groceries. Talk to people . . . you can’t begin to feel connected unless you reach out . . . and again - give yourself time to adjust to this new adventure in your life.
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